My God Given Name
by Flora Chol
I want to start the day with a new name
A new name for a new day
Don’t call me strong
A name that says I am here to stay
Say my name
Don’t call me a strong black woman
Call me soft
Call me delicate
Call me precious, plant kisses on my forehead
And gently lay me down on a bed of moss and roses
Though all I may know is a bed of thorns on nightmares of anxiety
My sleep will now be nothing short of tranquil
Call me by my God Given name
Don’t call me strong
Today I affirm that I am imperfect and perfect in all that I am
I am the final product of the hopes and dreams of the ancestors
Who moved kingdoms
To make Queendoms of us so that we may birth generations
To sing a new anthem
An anthem of my new name
For I am not here to tame or to be tamed
I am here in my full glory
Raging and roaring to unleash all that’s been hidden within so that I could fit
Call me by my God Given name
Let your tongue twist and turn till the vowels and constants
Iron out the unfamiliarity on your tongue
so that when my name rolls of the tip of your tongue with ease
I will stand and answer to my God given name
Don’t call me strong
I want an existence of peace
And I will still slay the beast if you tell me that all I am is strong
I may be in a season of traitorous rains
Raging storms and rugged terrains
But I will answer to my new name
I will answer to my God given name
I will not dare look at feet
I will unbow my head
I will not accept defeat or the fear that has been falsely placed upon me as my destination
I will emerge from the ashes of my fears with flames of hope
I will honour my shame
I will honour my pain
I will honour my name.
This piece is the first of four written works to be published as part of Peril’s No Compass collective. No Compass Collective are creative way-finders: navigating the future by understanding the past, with creatives and thinkers from Asian Australian Studies Research Network; It’s Not a Compliment; Peril Magazine; Meld Magazine; Southern Crossings; Teh Cha; and Writing Through Fences.
The project builds on the idea of “diaspora as methodology”, deploying diaspora as a political verb rather than administrative noun, to challenge the idea that diverse communities are “hard to reach”, instead considering them “easy to love” and challenging the justice of health, social, community and other systems.
This project has been supported by Multicultural Arts Victoria.